Discretion and safety are very important to both of us!

With
new friends, I conduct a discreet screening process and I require at
least 3 days advance booking. I am rarely available for last minute appointments with new friends.

Please note that I will assume the date canceled if you do not confirm on the day of our meeting and I have.

Within the first 15 minutes of meeting in a casual and public place, we will know if we're right for each other.

If we are out for dinner or an extended date: please discretely slip me an unsealed envelope containing my cash gift within the first 15 minutes of our time together.

If we've met for a shorter interlude: Immediately upon retiring to a more private location, please excuse yourself to the bathroom and leave the unsealed envelope on the sink... after which I will briefly excuse myself and be genuinely pleased and much more comfortable.

Please label the envelope "A Gift for You"

I prefer a greeting card or book with cash slipped inside. For new friends, the greeting card or book is non-negotiable.

I'll of course be genuinely thankful for your gift and things will proceed much more comfortably...

I will never return your call unless you leave a message specifically stating that it is "okay" to call that number. Even then, I will block my number. I respect that another woman's voice or number may cause unwanted disturbances. I also do not keep your phone number or other such information provided in the screening process.

I realize that your money is valuable, and I do my best to make you feel most appreciated for your generosity.

Please use my contact form to confirm your rate in case of an increase.

Also, if you think that you went to high school with me, or that I really am the girl next door, please do not make guesses as to who you think I am in my mainstream "public" life. This makes me very uncomfortable and I will ignore your email. If I think that I know you, I will either politely let you know or politely decline our date.

If it so happens that you see me out in public, even if I am with another woman or am alone, please do not approach me. Our mutual exchange of glances and perhaps smiles will be a sexy reminder of our friendship.

If it so happens that we run into someone I know, please follow my lead. I will most likely say that I ran into you at an airport. If someone should call me by a different name than you know me by... it's our secret ;-) If we run into someone YOU know, I will follow YOUR lead, and say as little as possible.

Be assured that I consider our time together confidential, and I do not discuss details with anyone (though if you buy me some sexy new shoes, I am most likely going to show my best friend!). I expect the same level of respect and discretion from you.

Cancellations: Please read my cancellation policy here.

Notes on Screening:
Screening is done for the purpose of assuring my safety and security. This is standard practice for independent escorts, and I have no interest in jeopardizing my life or well-being. I also have no interest in keeping your personal information after we've met.

Outcalls:
For my physical
safety: No later than an hour before our initial meeting in a public venue, I will need an exact
address that I can confirm. Upon arriving in the private setting, I
will excuse myself to send a safety text.

Incalls:
Available in a very discrete, upscale, residence. I provide wine, snacks, candles, and erotica.... in addition to my very extensive personal collection of lingerie, toys, and props (which continues to grow!). Expect a very luxurious, sensual, escape.... which is 100% discrete, since you will not be seen at any hotel, and will have no such records! Choose the "stay at home" options to avoid any restaurants on your bill- I'm glad to provide the food! I will do my best to help you avoid the nosy accountant, wife, or busy body :-)

Due to MY needs for discretion and safety, this is only be available to those who pre-qualify. Qualification for new friends consists of atleast ONE of the following:

1. Employment verification (see this FAQ on how I verify employment)
   
2. Member of P-411, Date-Check, RS2K or other reputable verification service.
3. Meet-n-greet date before we schedule a longer date.

Other notes:

If it's "that time of month", I will let you know after you've told me your preferred date, so that you can make an informed decision. It generally doesn't bother me if it doesn't bother you, though I like to have our first meeting when I am at my best-- and occasionally I do feel rather ill when on the rag. 'Nuff said :)

I'm not made of China, but I am probably smaller than most of the women you've dated.

Scented lotions and such are nice, but please allow me to use my own. My skin is extremely sensitive, and I do not like going to the dermatologist.

If I have entrusted you with my phone number, please respect my discretion and do not share it with others nor call me between 11pm and 8am. Additionally, my phone number changes every so often, for our mutual discretionary needs.

I will try to return your call or email within 24 hours. If I do not answer your email or return your call within 36 hours, please try again as the message may have gotten lost. Email is always the best way to reach me, as I check it frequently from my PDA.

Finally, it should go without saying, unless we have actually met and established an intimacy, I will not discuss those things which can occur only in private (or semi-private, if you're adventurous!). Receiving pictures of your private parts or explicit messages of any kind will cause me to cancel our date and end all communication with you. I understand that there is sometimes a fine line between harmless flirting and going overboard. If you are unsure of what you are about to express, it is probably best to save it until after we've met.

The gifts contributed have been and always will be expressly for my time and nothing more.